Who are we? Where is here? Why we are here at all? Who is the owner of this blog? All of these questions are good ones. Also this question: why do we really need to make a group blog? Are we here only to be here together? Do we want to make a circle of writers? Maybe there are a thousand questions in your mind. I tell you, all of your questions are good ones for me.
I want to write something sincere, without using complicated literature. So I start from this point. Making a group blog like this was not really even in my dreams. The whole idea and even the name comes from Unique’s mind. I always run away from getting engaged to something or somewhere. So why I’m writing this post? Well, because finally I’ve found my reasons to stay.
Since I’ve been writing on my Shahrazad blog, I was under too many attacks. Spammers? Ah, of course they are always there to attack any blog.
To be honest, the problem with me is that I am an Iranian Muslim and not just Iranian or just Muslim. Do you ask me now, “so what?”
Being Iranian is something that maybe I didn’t choose. It is my identity. My culture and my language are related to it. It is also the nationality of my passport, and the nationality of my parents and my parents’ parents. It is something that can not be pleasant by some people around the world. I don’t care, really. You know?
But the second and most important part of my identity is my religion. The fact that I am a Muslim on earth. It has its influence on my culture too. And on my lifestyle and point of view on the world. It even prepares me for political ideas, a spiritual connection to a Creator and a theory for the whole universe.
It is something that can not be pleasant at all for some “certain” groups. Even for some people who have the same nationality as me, some people who are “Iranian” and call themselves “Persian”.
I am under attack by them as an Iranian Muslim on earth. Because their “so called” democracy can not accept the title of a Muslim being attached to my nationality. Is that the reason for writing on this blog? No. It was just some sincere words with you. But the story has other side too.
Recently I was invited to write on a site about the Middle East and its issues. I don’t accept these kind of jobs before I research the sources and the goals of group. And I noticed the site is not enough just about Muslims. I noticed that the attacks that I experienced before, exists in these kind of sites too. Something based on stereotyped ideas which, intended or unintended, is creating a kind of misunderstanding towards people of the Muslim World.
It was just a good reason for me to accept Unique’s offer. I felt as a Muslim, I am misunderstood in the world I live in. I noticed as an Iranian Muslim, I am misunderstood whether from some Muslims because of my nationality, or from some Iranians because of my religion. Even as a Muslim woman I am misunderstood.
Unique and I don’t think about a revolution here. It is just a blog. And I hope it to be an informative one. In this world where being aMuslim is going to be very difficult, we try to write our thoughts about the Muslim world so we can defy any stereotyped ideas.
I believe that the young generation of today has both good qualities and some deficiencies in them. This generation has a series of understandings and emotions that the previous generations did not possess and also they have the benefit of the doubt. They are going up the stairs of life. At the same time, they also have some corrupt thoughts and negative ethical traits which must be removed from their character.
There is no dead end in life. In the previous generations, the thoughts and minds of the people were not as open as the generation of today. These emotions and good qualities were not present in the people of the past, and so we must show respect to the youth for their noble qualities and it is Islam itself which has shown respect to these traits.
So…Here we are as the young generation of today. Out of place, as a Muslim? That’s our choice…



December 29, 2007 at 5:18 pm
I find the emphasis on boxing/categorising yourself, especially the incessant NEED as though your identity (self/perceived and actual) is haywire unless you do it.
I’ve never really cared about whether i define myself as Muslim, british or the other long list of tags i can attach to my shoe like a label. For those who incapable of interacting without knowing “who” the other is – they should get over it.
You’re onyl as left out as you make yourself to feel and be. Sticking only with Muslims or only with people of your own nationality contributes to the feeling of alienation. You can BE Iranian and a Muslim without them conflicting. After all we play many roles in life and are quite capable of enacting them in their various guises – the muslim/nationality thing is just the same! IMO
December 29, 2007 at 5:20 pm
Mind the awry grammar – im incredibly tired and need some much required respite!
December 29, 2007 at 5:35 pm
Keep speaking your mind – your valuable contribution helps others to understand who you, and millions of others like yourself, really are. Earth is a diverse landscape of humanity – we all have an obligation to know ourselves, and by extension, the rest of us who live in different bodies and countries. Keep up the good work.
December 29, 2007 at 5:36 pm
Sumera, For me, i dont have any conflict about being a muslim and an Iranian together. To be honest i also dont care who is who and i dont pay attention to tags.
But the misunderstanding that i mentioned is not particularly by me or bcs of my act or thought. Usually every misunderstanding is not by the individual. As long as we dont utter who we are really, others can not get. So they make their own stories or follow others’ stereotyped ideas. It doesnt mean to be stuck on one group or community. It is uttering your real thoughts.. Maybe they really dont know them
December 29, 2007 at 5:38 pm
johnnypeepers, Welcome to our blog.
Thank you for your words. Am doing it..
December 29, 2007 at 7:17 pm
Bravo, dear Sister
I am happy you and Unique started this blog. May it be beneficial.
Ya Haqq!
December 29, 2007 at 7:25 pm
Irving, Thank you so much for your encourage. That means alot for us
December 30, 2007 at 1:22 am
Brava Shahi, excellent article
December 30, 2007 at 2:48 am
A great piece of work. I like you am a Muslim, born a Muslim and come from a long line of Muslims. However, I find that I don’t have sufficient knowledge of my religion, Islam. We, born Muslims, assume that we know everything. In reality, it’s only the tip of the iceberg! Do we practice what has been preached on us? I don’t know, I don’t dare say it out!
So, I hope you and unique will continue sharing your thoughts with us, your readers.
December 30, 2007 at 9:48 am
Wow Shahrzaad…I definitely know how the feeling of being misunderstood by my own people and by others.
Not to detract from your well written article here, but Mashallah the girl in that picture is very beautiful!
I don’t think there will be a point when everyone will suddenly wake up and understand, and you are right, a blog is not a revolution. But it is a drop in the bucket towards getting our/your voice heard!
Salaam
December 30, 2007 at 8:13 pm
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January 1, 2008 at 12:01 pm
I love your weblog.
January 1, 2008 at 3:19 pm
This is a very well written statement of purpose. I can see how your experience as an Iranian Muslim would make you vulnerable to attack. Given this, it is wise that you do a group blog. I look forward to seeing how this progresses.
January 1, 2008 at 3:31 pm
That’s the problem with bucketizing people. We all have multiple identities and reducing our identities in one category or another reduces who we are.
January 1, 2008 at 3:58 pm
I wish you all the best in the New Year. However, I am uncomfortable with your religion and (to a much lesser extent) your nationality being the defining and distinguishing feature of your blog.
You are automatically alienating a lot of potential readers (like me) by wearing your religion on your sleeve. I am sure you would say ‘too bad, but so what?’ to that. I am, incidentally, strongly atheistic and consider your religion as a negative influence in the world. Of course, I also consider all other religions the same way.
That said, I love the food of your region and I think Iranians are among the most beautiful people on earth.
January 1, 2008 at 4:42 pm
rambodo,
I am uncomfortable with your lack of religion and this being the defining and distinguishing feature of your above comment. You “automatically exclude” a lot of others when you spout mindless banter about the negative influence of religion. This is not the forum for your Atheistic prosleytizing.
I am glad it makes you uncomfortable when others celebrate their diversity, I think it is kinda cute.
January 1, 2008 at 8:50 pm
Rambodoc, I wish you the best in the New Year too. However, I am uncomfortable with your narrow-mindedness and intolerance towards other people proudly showing their religion. I am, incidentally, Muslim and consider your attitude a negative influence on the world. Everyone is free to believe in what they want to believe in and your views of intolerance is undemocratic and backward. That said, the Iranian food is delicious, I agree!
January 1, 2008 at 9:14 pm
Salaam, and I’m glad to see your post! As an Iranian and a Muslim, I know what you mean; so many people want us to be either/or, and not BOTH. People from both sides try to reduce or take away parts of our identities because they feel that these parts cannot exist within us without diminishing our other parts. In reality, the different facets of our identity make other facets stronger and richer, hamdullah.
January 1, 2008 at 10:08 pm
globetrottingrien, Thank you. You’re right. There are less born muslims who really try to know what they religion brings for them.
luckyfatima, It seems there are many muslims who have same problem like mine. Thank you for your encouragement. Keep visiting the blog.
pistolpete, thank you so much. We appreciate your comments
Amina Ae Sook, I think you’re right. Also it is not all about tags. As i explained for Sumera too..
rambodoc, Happy new year to you too. Irani being is good and Iranian foods are wonderful and Iranians are pretty nation. It’s ok. But You know, amazing how i wrote the whole the post about Misunderstanding Issue and you again repeated all words that i consider them as stereotyped ideas.
If you’re an Atheist, OK, you’re free to be. Bcs in my democratic mind i respect you to be what you want. Yet i also expect exactly same respectful reaction from your side.
Otherwise, if you dont, that’s you who are transmiting negativity in the atmospere of the world!
Zeynab, I feel good and bad both, when i see others also faced with my problem. Good bcs i have some others who understand my feeling and bad bcs others had to face with this issue..
January 4, 2008 at 3:47 pm
Before we’re Iranian or Indian or African or Spanish or whatever we are muslim. And that’s what unites us:-)
I was fortunate to live in Egypt last year where almost al my friends were women from other countries, also in Egypt to learn Arabic, or to live. Many of them were converts to Islam. Despite our multitude of backgrounds none of it mattered. For the first time in my life I experienced complete lack of racial, social, ethnic boundaries subhanallah!
January 4, 2008 at 4:38 pm
bb-aisha, I really didnt mean that being this or that nationality is important. I meant that nobody should judge people bcs of Tags or lebals. Even lebal of muslim being.
Anyway I appreciate your view so much and i wish all muslims think like you. But for example just yesterday i deleted almost 30 comments by a commentator on my blog that insulted me as an Iranian and called me a Kafir!!
January 5, 2008 at 1:07 pm
Very well said! I am so sick of boxes, labels, tags and attackers. In teh beginning I was very patient with attackers and then I just gave up so now I kick ass if anyone dares to hit my behind
You are a great human being first, Shah! A great human. You are an intelligent woman and a fantastic thinker. The rest is secondary. So, those who have problems with an Iranian Muslim woman can shove their heads deeper in sand.
Bravo!
January 5, 2008 at 5:05 pm
Achelois, Since beginning, when a comment is known as attack (usually they paste a comment for several posts in my blog) , the IP will quickly go to Black List . That’s why i have a long list in my Moderation inbox.
Thank you so much. You’re so right. Every person should be judged for his/her humanity and not via lebals!
“those who have problems with an Iranian Muslim woman can shove their heads deeper in sand.” I agree. “Thump” up
January 18, 2008 at 4:00 pm
Keep up the good work and do not look back, let the dogs bark and you just march on, be proud of your heritage and pay less attention to those who think that badmouthing and finger pointing is proof of intelligence, they simply degrade themselves and not you. do not forget that only 3% of the world population are intelligent enough to realize the truth on their own without being fed all kinds of contradictory ideas.
May Allah bless you and may your effort be fruitful.
January 18, 2008 at 6:16 pm
Xavier, Thank you for your very nice comment. It really gave me hope
“only 3% of the world population are intelligent enough to realize the truth on their own”
So true your words.. Ameen for your Du’a
March 26, 2008 at 7:32 pm
i really wonder.. does it matter ur being an iranian muslim…
seems ur obsessed by it..
dont know why??
but just imagine.. if our souls are swapped.. with you being incharge of my life and i yours.. probably.. u would have had a completely different viewpoint.. of life.. probaly more positive one
(to note.. this is the first blog i have read… and i dont know much about unique )
May 28, 2008 at 5:26 am
abhinav88, It was the most funniest comment one could leave for this post!! It seems you’ ve not read my words as well!